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Message from: Susannah, 14 Jan 05

Subject: How can i cope when i get the blame?

My brother died three yrs ago when i was ten, but i hadn't seen him for a long time as he went into care when i was only six yrs old. My dad and mum blamed me for his death, as i aws the very last person in my family to talk to him. i am finding it very hard.My sister is the only one that belives me i am not the one to blame for his can anyone help me, as i also get bullied because of his death. i just don't know how i can cope!

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how to cope ? when im upset , i read and dissapear into the book , i take a bath and relax , i write down my feelings , or sometimes i ring my friends and talk about something completely different. its unfair of youre parents to blame you , maybe its their way of greiving though. one day , maybe theyll ask you for forgivness of their bloody idiocy. excuse me.if youre being bullied about it you really need to tell a teacher. or maybe you could tell a friend , or ask youre sister to tell a teacher ifyoure not confident. ihope things get better for you , keep youre head up.
eliza
p.s remember , people everywhere are thinking of you with love , even if you , or even they , dont know it .