link to homepage
4 blue footprints
link to the work continues website link to cruse bereavement care website'

message board

message no. 930

Message from: Adam, 08 Jan 05

Subject: left with 4 monts old twins at the age of 17


hey i was on here b4 talkin about GF and how my GF(amiee) found out she had cancer. and her dreams were 2 grow up and have kids and get marred but when she found out that she didnt have long 2 live i wanted 2 make her dreams come true.so i did on sep the 3rd she gave birth two to lovely twin girls. she loved them 2 bits and wanted this xmas 2 b the best ever cause she new she wouldn't b here next xmas but on the 19th of dec she was rust in2 hospitel and we were sadly told she wasnt going 2day. i could belive it. i thought we would have longer 2getter but God wanted her now. so only thing i could do was 2 make her 2nd dream come true so on the 22th of dec i marred her in the hospitel. she lasted 2 day cause on the 24th God took her. i really miss her sooooooo mush but i know i have 2 b here 4 my 2 littie Angels.


Reply from:Hannah C

Subject:(no subject)

Adam I have no words to describe how sorry i am. We spoke before on this board and i told you about my dad who died when i was 11 months old and if you wanna chat I am here but remember that your WIFE will always love you and be there with you and your twins. Message back if you wanna talk xxxxxx

Reply from:kayley

Subject:hold on

I can tell from the way that you are talking about your girlfriend that you must have really loved her, and she sounds like she was an amazing person. I wont pretend that i understand what you are going through because i cant ever begin to imagine, but what i will say is that you beautiful little girls need you, and now you have the most wonderful responsibility in the world and that is to make your girlfriend proud. Bring up your children in the way you know she would want you to. Cherish the memories you have of her and share these with your girls so they can grow up knowing what an amazing woman their mother was. I would wish you good luck... but i know you will do just fine. Have faith.

Reply from:Caz

Subject: Stay strong

Aww adam that is so sweet just be strong for your two little babies yeah? You must have loved and still do love aimee very much but at least you still have your girls who can be a constant reminder of their mum. Aimee will be looking down on you and helping you all the way with the twins. Stay strong and when your two girls are old enough tell them exactly what their mum was like and how special she was :) Best wishes and all the best in the future, Caz x

reply to message | back to message board

home
about RD4U
personal
interact
| message board
| private message
| gallery
| comments
| feedback
fun zone
LADS ONLY
links
contact us
sitemap
home | about RD4U | personal | interact | fun zone | LADS ONLY | links | contact us | sitemap