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Message from: trudi, 18 Dec 05

Subject: plz help me

my dad has just passed away last week on the 30th of december i am glad that he was alive to see my 16th and my bros 18th birthday but i wish he was still here i cant talk to any1 in my family because if i even mencing the work dad every1 breaks down into tears or starts shouting at each other my friends just say well the best thing is he went in his sleep that he wasnt in any pain but im in pain me and my dad is close if only i could see him one more time and tell him i love him. he died on the wed and the last time i seen him was the sun i really need some1 to talk to.

Subject:re plz help me (posted by trudi)

Oh Trudi i'm so sorry to hear of your loss i know how you feel i just lost my dad in october it's an awful experience my heart goes out to you hun i'm only 23 myself and my dads death was very sudden and unexpected he was very young only 41 there is not a day that goes by that i don't miss him especially this time of year once again my heart goes out to you xx

Subject: Dad

I sympathise complete with you, i lost my Dad in May this year - he had Pulmonary Fibrosis - i cant accept what has happened find it very hard to deal with day to day life - he was always there for me and now tht he is gone its awful -i am constantly breaking down and wish xmas was over - we are both suffering a great deal of pain but they say it does get easier with time - my thoughts are with you and your not alone - keep in touch.

Subject:dad

Im sorry for all your loses,my dad passed away april 2005,very sudden and unexpected,he just turnt 48,people say time is a great healer,but as time goes on,it just gets harder,in 24,my dad was there whan my daughter was born,we too were close,and now i will never see his face in person or hear his face and that kills me,im married but i only live for my daughter and my mum and my sister,if i had my own way i would end my life,missing him is too painfull,but luckily i have my daughter and she helps me,im now on antideppressants and am waiting for counsilling,i wont say happy new year,how can it be happy without our loved ones but as my mum says we must be grateful for what we have and not what we havnt.
take care all.
xxx

Subject: thanks

hey thanks u guys i have pulled throu n my family is much happier nwe because we haver relized things happen 4 a reason and aslong as we hav each other he shall run throu our lives. i also had problems 2 weeks after my dad died because my nanny (my dads mum) died then my family and friends were saying that i am lucky enough that i wasnt as close 2 her as i woz with my dad i didnt react towards that shock as i did my dad. there is a message in this website from my wee sister plz read it because it is so sweet from a 10 year old her name is jessica and its under no subject. dnt worry i will keep in touch xxx