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Message from: Susan, 03 Mar 05

Subject: the pain is just to much for me anymore

my dad died 6 months ago.. I cant go on without him.. its like a knife in your heart, that twists and twists, every minute of every day.. people have said to me, that the pain never goes away, it just becomes a pain that I will learn to live with.. but I dont want it anymore...

Subject:your dad

hello, you will get through this believe me. i have 2 boys and they lost their daddy 18 months ago, and they have cryed and talked and screamed with the pain but the happy memories that we all share ave kept us going do you have brothers or sisters and can you talk to your mum? please even if you think it might upset her it won't she will want to help you and speaking from experiance will be so releived that you have opened the conversation with how you are feeling. i remember how at 6 months i was coping with loosing my husband you are still so numb and raw but it will ease take care

Subject:ello

my dad died 2 years ago, and im not going 2 say its easy cos it aint...But i tell u this it duz gt easier.
When he first died i felt the same it flt like i was being destroyed cut in half...Every feeling u av sed
Hope this helps
Keep ur chin up (well try hun)
Luv Nina x

Subject:Your dad

I know exactly how it feels. My dad died last year on the 18th March, so I'm facing the anniversary of his death soon. I suppose I could say I did the wrong thing, I didn't talk to anyone at the time, and just pushed any feelings away - i still havent really properly talked to anyone. It's just so hard when the person you love most suddenly taken away (he died in an accident, so I never got to say goodbye properly).
Good Luck, Lou xxxxxx