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Message from: Julianne - 15 Apr 04

Subject: i miss my daddy

I just lost my dad in February and I really need someone to talk to that can relate to my problem. Sometimes I feel like I wasn't nice enough to him. I feel really guilty. (I also lost my grandma and some cats). Can someone please talk to me and help me through this? (I'm crying now)I really want my daddy back! I love him so much!!!!!! If you want to ask me how he died, go ahead. And please someone talk to me. Thanks.


Reply from:rebecca 29 Apr 04

Subject:i can relate

hi, my dad died bout 5 years ago, he committed suicide. i know how you feel, sometomes i feel guilty that i wasn't nice enough or helpful enough but your dad always loved you - my mum always tells me that sometimes i can't help thinking maybe it was my fault maybe it was me, my councellor says if you have good friends they'll help you and support you. so if you ever wanna talk, i knoe what you feel like!

Reply from:Kirstie S 29 Apr 04

Subject:losing someone close

Dear Julianne
Hi i'm Kirstie I lost my dad 8yrs ago feb and i can relate to what you maybe going through! Its hard theres no hinding that! Everyone greves in different ways and i found the fizical pain so hard to cope wiv!! i didn't understand why it had to happen to me what i had done to deserve to go through this pain!!
My Dad died suddenly on 24th feb 96 of a heart attack!!
If you don't mind me asking how did your DAD die?
I've also lost other people i love my grandfather,my anutie, and my best friend as well as losing pets i've lost 2 dogs one when i was young i think i was about 9yrs old and the other wasn't that long ago the aug just gone 03!! They were both so loving dogs as well!!
I'm here for you to talk to at any time! I always check the board everyday!so just leave me a message an i'll get right back to you!!
I hope i can help you in anyway!!
Luv Kirstie

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